My patience has been deteriorating slowly these last few days or maybe I am finally growing a backbone and standing up for myself (albeit within the careful confines of my room). But I have definitely been mean in various aspects of my life, confrontational a lot of the time, raring for a fight, not very favourable, desirable attributes but I cannot help it, I don’t really have the patience to take what gets dished out to me or maybe I am getting too sensitive or intolerant or a snowflake as people seem to think I am. I don’t know how to deal with all of this, that is the simple fact of the matter. I am incompetent to deal with stress and the other things and there really is nothing else the matter. But that also points me in the direction to seek some kind of support and help and I think, I might have put that off for longer than necessary.
Are things really bothering me or as a friend asked me, is my mind conjuring up the botheration (if that’s even a word) to seek some form of sadistic comfort from the process of victimising myself? I mean, the friend did not ask me that but I think that’s what he was getting to but he did not really put it out there. Mainly because this could be taken in a bad way and I think he wanted to save me some kind of bad feeling, which I appreciate because sometimes these hard-to-swallow pills taste better coming from myself. But that doesn’t mean that I particularly enjoy taking them but I guess, that’s why they are hard to swallow in the first place. I think I haven’t exactly reached the point of finding sadistic pleasure in feeding myself hard pills too. If I do, I would put that as the loss of sanity from my side and I think, I would prefer to not exist.
Existence is such a weird concept and recently, it has been on my mind more than I am willing to admit. There is always the fear and recently, the hatred for existence and existing, or maybe hatred is too strong a word, most definitely a resentment though. I don’t think I know exactly where it started and there is a fear of saying it out loud. I don’t want to go to a counsellor and say that I have recently been wishing that I did not exist. In a way, saying it on the blog also feels extremely vulnerable and scary because it makes it concrete. But this blog feels more isolated than an actual counsellor and talking and isolation sounds extremely tempting. I have recently been filled with the need to isolate myself and I have been trying my best to fight against it by forcefully inserting myself into people’s lives, so I don’t isolate myself like how I want to. It is quite counter-effective but then I am definitely not dealing with things well. Well, I never claimed that I knew how to deal with things, did I?
And that’s my memory for the day.