This is a formal goodbye I guess, I think it is time I close this space and move on to other aspects of my life. Aspects that I can control and take care of, that I can deal with in a more productive way than what I am doing right now. This goodbye does not mean that I am giving up on this blog or anything of that kind (do I sound horribly defensive right now or what?). But in all honesty, I think it may be time for me to focus my energies in a much more deliberate way and the way I presume I can do that comfortably is to let go of things that take up a lot of time, sometimes with not much reason. This blog has helped me a lot over this time, but I think it may finally be time to move on and let myself explore new things.
One of the important things I am thinking of doing is coming back to this blog later, in the beginning of 2019 and start a weekly project where I set myself a theme every week and come up with posts for each of those weeks. It should ideally be a mix of different things like prose and poetry as well as a general post. I want it to be an intellectually stimulating exercise that produces work that I can confidently be proud of. This blog so far has given me a wonderful space to air out my thoughts and I know that when I come back to visit it later, I will be hit with memories, some good, some sad, but all of them valuable in their own right. I can only say at this moment that I am alone but I am strong and I will power myself through everything that is getting to me.
It gets really easy to feel overwhelmed all the time, I guess. There is so much going on, so many things that I am juggling on a day-to-day basis that, as my counsellor pointed it out to me during today’s session, I don’t get enough time with myself. I am not able to engage with myself as much I would need to and that shows in the way I treat myself, the utter negativity and toxicity that I throw at myself. I am extremely bad to myself and that reflects in everything I do, everyone I interact with. There is a deep fear and insecurity about myself that takes the front seat any time I get to do anything at all. And I feel that the only way to combat this would be for me to get my life somewhat in order, and that starts with eating and sleeping properly, cutting myself off from work that I don’t really enjoy doing and a few other things that I hope will help me get back on track with better mental health.
So this is a formal goodbye, and sentimentally, also a goodbye to the “me” that has been writing here all these days. It has been a good person but I (who is this, I wonder) think it can be better and it shall attempt to be better. A better person, a better friend, better daughter, a better student (is it quite funny that I am putting student later, almost like it is not of as much priority as the others? Maybe it is so?). So I am once again saying goodbye (like I haven’t said it a thousand times already), it has been a fascinating journey. Part of me is sad that I am not seeing this through to 366, part of me is also relieved that I am ending it now, part of me still cannot believe that this venture got to 303, it is quite a wonderful achievement and I am glad that I pulled through all this while. All that remains is to pull through the rest of the way. And I will, right?
And that’s my memory for the day.